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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-18 04:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #1720 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1720 ⌋


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TB!2

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I really do get where you're coming from- I can't deny that there's something fairly depraved about this particular kink. Regardless, it is a kink. And a fairly common one, out in the real world. Straight-laced husbands and wives [who have never heard of kink-memes and non-con] roleplay rape scenarios in their bedrooms. For reasons unknown, some people get off to rape fantasy, just like some people are turned on by BDSM and tentacles. I'm sorry it makes you so uncomfortable [and that's a legit, non-sarcastic sympathy], but it's unlikely to ever go away. Is it disturbing that it's become so acceptable? Yeah, but I think that's been inevitable. Just try and look the other way. Fantasizing about rape isn't the same as condoning real-life violation; it's just a fetish.

Re: TB!2

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally I think a lot of it has to do with not being in control and/or the humiliation that goes along with it [and humiliation can go with BDSM and a number of other, non-rape related kinks as well so take that as you will]. I know of some people do it *because* they feel guilty always having to be the one 'in charge' as it were, in their sexual relations with their partner.

That said, there are reasons the terms non-con and dub-con are used, and those have been discussed so many times in this comm it's old news by now.