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⌈ Secret Post #1801 ⌋

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[Venture Brothers]

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[Batman]

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[It's Not My fault I'm Not Popular]

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[Ray Force]

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[The Future I Whisper to You/Stargate Atlantis]

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[Terry Pratchett's Going Postal]

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[Code Geass]

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[Gokusen]

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[Code Geass]

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[Alison Brie/How I Met Your Mother]

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[The Vampire Diaries]

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[Final Fantasy X]

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[Supernatural]

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[Community]

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[Martin Solveig]

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[Clocktower series]

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[Winnie the Pooh]

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[Supernatural]

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[Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers]

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[The Sing-Off]

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[Oglaf]

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[Strangers with Candy]

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[Supernatural]

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[The Lion King]

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[S-CRY-ed]

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[Bones]

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[Fate/Zero]

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[A Christmas Carol]

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[Sequential Art]

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[ZUN/Jun'ya Ota]

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[Diablo 2]

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[Friends]

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[Winter Soldier #1]

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[Supernatural, Florence + the Machine]

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[Victorious]

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[Easy A]

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[The Vampire Diaries]

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[The Vampire Diaries]

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[Holly Black, Spiderwick Chronicles]

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[Monkey Island]

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[The Vampire Diaries]

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[Kurokami/Black God]

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[Eden of the East]

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If you have one, didn't you always know what they looked like? Did you not look down until recently?

Not OP, but I generally avoided looking too close until I was about, ooh, eighteen or so? In fact, I generally avoided looking at/touching it as much as possible, because I honestly did and still do think they're sort of gro-okayI'mjustgoingtogoanonnow.

*apprehensive hand-raising of agreement* Yeeeeeeah, same here. \:

Look F!S, we can't all have Georgia O'Keeffe paintings for ladybits, okay.

Yeah, same here. I'd elaborate, but for the sake of not getting into tmi territory, I probably shouldn't.

Wow, seriously? Then again, I'm way off the other end of the spectrum - started masturbating before puberty. I just can't imagine not exploring it at least in a non-sexual, "what's this here" way.

I don't know about anyone else, but I find it's hard to get a good look unless you're positioning yourself awkwardly over a mirror. It's not like a penis where it's hanging out in the open - the only thing you're going to see from the front is the mons, labia majora and, depending on the woman, part of the labia minora. And if you've got a lot of hair and don't shave or trim, that can obscure things as well.

Basically, unless you do some gymnastics you're not going to be looking at the inner parts of your own crotch.

Yeah, this.

I always figured they just weren't built for looks and that is someone wants to see mine (well, someone's) it's because of what they want to do with it and not because they just want to stare.

But if the OP has issues then they do.

My thoughts exactly.

Yep, this. And the leaflets I got given during sex ed said the same thing - it's really hard to get a proper look at your own vagina without a mirror so most girls don't see theirs until they go out of their way to do it.

I'm wondering if the comment up thread is by a guy, cause when I explained to one of my guy-friends that a lot of girls go most of their childhoods without seeing their own vaginas he was confused because it's so different for guys.

While this is definitely true, you can generally get a feel for what's there with your hands. I don't think I ever sat down with a mirror until I was like 15 or so, but there was nothing that surprised me there. You can pretty much know what's down there without a mirror.

lol went unanon for a second there, you didn't see that.

I avoided it after accidentally seeing part of it when I was younger because it creeped me out so much. I've still never seen my own entirely, but in any depiction of a woman spreading her legs I get so nauseated that I can't look anymore. It sucks too, because I ship a lot of het and can never even read explicit porn of my favorite couples.

It's ok if you find vaginas gross to look at. A lot of people do. But if it's seriously affecting your life to the point where you feel nauseated when you look at one or do not feel comfortable being naked in front of others because you have a vagina, I'd definitely consider going to a doctor or therapist because that is not normal.

Hm. I think you probably might wanna see someone if your reaction is a strong as nausea and not wanting to be naked in front of a potential partner. It could be body dysmorphia. And it's going to be difficult to have a "traditional" sex life if you feel like you can't be unclothed in front of your partner. I'm not saying that people who need to have sex a certain way should be shamed, at all, but if you feel like uncovered sex is something that you might want, then it's something you should probably look into. Even if you circumnavigate by having covered sex, it's probably good to talk about it and uncover why you feel that way - I mean, it could be indicative of a larger sexual anxiety (or not! But it's possible) or some self-image things.

What I'm saying is, it sounds like it's affecting you (nausea, can't read porn, self-image stuff that comes along with hating a part of your own body, anxiety about having sex in the future), and that's a good reason to seek someone to talk to about it.

Maybe OP wasn't very curious about 'down there'? I know I never bothered looking down there until I was about 16 or so. I just kinda figured there was a hole down there someone and that's what my vagina was, but I never really bothered to actually locate it or study it.

If you can simply look down and see your vagina, seek help from an orthopedic surgeon. Something's waaaaayyyy out of line.

Not much you can see from that angle.

ayrt

Replying to basically everybody in the thread, I wasn't thinking of things you could only see squatting over a mirror and spreading yourself (which I still haven't done, personally). I was basically just thinking of the bits of yourself a toddler can pretty easily see leaning over not too far while if sitting down.

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