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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-19 07:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1812 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1812 ⌋


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[identity profile] mistaria.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
This. I just respond with "it's the same thing as guys finding two girls together attractive." Although I once got a "no, it's not" in response. ::rolls eyes::

[identity profile] lolofielding.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Just curious; was the response from a man or a woman?

Coz I tried using that argument on a friend of mine and she said the same thing but her boyfriend was like; "Fair dos."

[identity profile] mistaria.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
From a woman.

[identity profile] to-question.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I usually replay with "I like it because I can perv on two guys at once." That usually awkwards the other person into shutting the hell up.

[identity profile] mistaria.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Haha, nice. I'll have to try that one next time. ;p

[identity profile] errantnarwhal.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
man, this. I remember catching a few minutes of a radio show once where the two hosts were completely baffled and disgusted by Anne Hathaway saying that she found Heath Ledger and Jake Gylenwhatever kissing kind of sexy. And yet the same hosts also talk about the magnificence of lesbian porn...

[identity profile] mistaria.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
Oh Anne, ILU.

Those radio d00ds are idiots.

[identity profile] errantnarwhal.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
lol, they are indeed

in the same segment they also talked about how no man can play a gay character in a movie without either being gay or being "turned" gay by playing the role. Because that's how it works (nevermind the fact that Patrick Stewart isn't actually a Starfleet Captain and Michael C. Hall isn't actually a serial killer).

[identity profile] mistaria.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
My icon sums up my feelings perfectly.

[identity profile] its-still-talk.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
The fuck do you mean Patrick Stewart isn't a Starfleet Captain?! Lies, those were historical documents and they were real, OK?
Are you gonna tell me he was lying about being a telepath too?

[identity profile] ikabod11.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
In western culture, female sexuality has largely been defined by men - what we like, what we want, how we are supposed to respond and behave, etc. Men have convinced themselves, and many women, that female sexuality is not "visual" and is all about romance. Hence the cultural beliefs that women do not like porn unless it's soft-core romantic stuff - because we're supposed to be all about the story, not the visual. Thus, how could we possibly like seeing two men get each other off? There's no role for us to play in the happy-ever-after scenario there, so it must be purely visceral - but that doesn't make sense because we're not supposed to work that way. So , if we like it, there must be something wrong with us.

(Anonymous) 2011-12-20 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
This. I've never liked any of the "female-friendly" porn I've been seen, I just don't find it as appealing as "regular" porn. Apparently, this makes me a bad woman.

(Anonymous) 2011-12-20 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
omg, THANK YOU! I hear that argument all the time and it makes me feel like a freak for getting turned on by visual components (like my brain isn't working the "right way" or something). /sad

(Anonymous) 2011-12-20 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Western culture? I'd say every culture.
I have yet to find a society in which female sexuality wasn't dictated by men's rules.

[identity profile] ikabod11.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
True, but I'm no anthropologist and could only speak from my own experience.

[identity profile] hiyami.livejournal.com 2011-12-20 06:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I got that answer too, and also a guy who said "Err... not all guys find two girls together attractive".