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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-26 07:37 pm

[ SECRET POST#1819 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1819 ⌋


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[identity profile] ariseishirou.livejournal.com 2011-12-27 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
The only danger is, I think, that if you succeed in finding them but still want a romantic relationship outside of that BFF one, you'll have to limit yourself to potential romantic partners who also have a BFF. Because otherwise what a lot of people expect out of a long term romantic partnership is to become best friends also, and if you already have one they'll be frustrated. It gets even more complicated if you're straight, and your BFF is of the opposite sex. Your romantic partner will wonder why you "can't just do ____ with them instead" and the truth, i.e. that it wouldn't be as fun with them, is a grand way to wind up dumped ;p

That said if you find someone else who already has a BFF they'll understand, and even be relieved.