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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-26 07:37 pm

[ SECRET POST#1819 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1819 ⌋


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[identity profile] pendingprogress.livejournal.com 2011-12-28 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't need to be codependent to be this close to someone. My best friend and I, back in the day, were the archetypal 'old married couple'. We worked together, went home together, went out together, I used to keep his payslips, people would call me to get him and vice versa...we were very, very close (lots of things we never said to anyone else but each other) and I often felt like we were two halves of a whole, but truly we were two separate people who just complemented each other extremely well. We didn't need each other but we were better together, for sure. I still miss him a ton, have done since he moved and we hardly ever see each other and don't talk often enough (both crap at keeping in contact like that especially since once we start talking, we don't stop until one of us is ready to drop) but we were able to separate without it destroying us, which if we'd been codependent it probably would've done. In a heartbeat if someone offered me a viable way of living near him again I would do because I love him and who I am when I'm with him, but I don't NEED him.

Teal dear: awesome closeness =/= codependency.

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