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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-24 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1848 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1848 ⌋


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[identity profile] unicornherds.livejournal.com 2012-01-25 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I can totally see the romantic shit you're talking about, but part of my problem is that I've known plenty of abusive men and they were all super romantic and sweet, until they weren't. So I have a hard time ignoring all of the abuse and awfulness in those books just because there's some sweetness.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
My ex would be absolutely sweet in front of everyone (I actually got told that if there was a guy who wouldn't harm me or anyone, it was him), but he somehow turned creepy, jealous and abusive, and tried to guild-trip me into having sex with him as soon we started dating. It took me an eternity to break off with him because he was actually really sweet to me when we weren't alone and didn't even know the harm he was doing, and I felt too guilty to do it.

Sweet abusive partners are a vicious thing.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry you went through that. :/

(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks you.
Fortunately, he lived quite far from me, which prevented us of seeing eachother too often.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
(same anon as just before)

I probably shouln't have said all this, but venting off does make me feel better.