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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-24 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1848 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1848 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 63 secrets from Secret Submission Post #264.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] cloud-riven.livejournal.com 2012-01-25 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Because being contrarian makes for a secret that gets replies?

There's something so impersonal and dry about just stating an opinion about looks that I have a hard time taking it like some serious affront. Saying, "Oh hey, I really like/dislike this face," doesn't seem that big of a deal to me unless they're also saying they find the person's company or prescence is off-putting/enjoyable solely because of it.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
Well, yes.

The thing is, the secret maker didn’t write “I really dislike this face”, they wrote “He honestly has the ugliest face I’ve ever seen”. While it’s probably hyperbole, it has a much different connotation than just disliking his face. Then it’s followed up by “Why do so many fangirls think that he’s so attractive?!”, which implies that other people are wrong for finding him attractive, and that just isn’t cool.

[identity profile] cloud-riven.livejournal.com 2012-01-25 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Implying shmaplying. So OP can't relate to a lot of people. Maybe they do consider most everyone else's opinions wrong. Whatever. It's not quite an issue of needing to know or care about all views, and getting all upset someone disagreeing with you (general you) about how handsome someone isn't, or is, is so dim. Huge waste of energy to justify your sentiments from either end.

I think this about pretty much anything though, not just looks. Stuff like being worried about not relating to a popular idea, not caring about a fad, loving bieber etc etc.

It's all okay. I will still love you, and we can still have cake together.