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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-24 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1848 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1848 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
"Trying to protect her from dangers even if she might hate him for it"

...Do you realise that you put that in the list with the 'romantic' stuff? Is that something you'd honestly enjoy? Having your opinion ignored, your free will rejected?

The idea that a man should override a woman's wishes just because he 'Knows Better Than You, Silly Female' is incredibly sexist and sickening. It's also a slippery slope argument. If he ignores her opinions about safety, then he can ignore her about when she wants to have sex too. After all, it's his 'right' and he's the man, so he must know better.

If my boyfriend ever did something I hated, then I wouldn't see it as romantic. I'd HATE it. Consider the key word there: HATE. If someone does something that you HATE, then it's not a good thing. It's a BAD thing. THAT'S WHY YOU HATE IT.

Also: how about this? BELLA SHOULD PROTECT HERSELF. Or at least STAY AWAY FROM DANGER. Or how about staying away from Edward, seeing as he's the cause of most of the danger.
Women don't always need men to protect them.