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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-24 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1848 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1848 ⌋


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[identity profile] lovelycudy.livejournal.com 2012-01-25 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't assume women are stupid for believing that abusive models of relationships are good. But, to be honest, I've seen a large amount of Twilight fans (as we are talking about this series in particular) who see nothing wrong with the way relationships are portrayed in the books. I rarely see people saying "well, this is wrong, but it's my kink" -which is fine and I agree- but I see a lot of people saying "he was only protecting her! He loves her so much that he can't be without her!" which, imho, is not healthy at all.

Someone mentioned Spike/Buffy somewhere in this thread. I think there are differences: they had a mutually abusive relationship -and I think Buffy had more power than Spike- up to the rape attempt. But, trough all the arc, the show acknowledge that relationship as fucked up and people who, like me, like it, like it for the wrongness, while being aware that behaviour like that doesn't fly in real life.