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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-28 03:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1852 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1852 ⌋


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
The whole reaction to the Derpy Hooves thing here on LJ made me sad. Sure, there were people who recognised that it's a problematic inclusion, but there were even more people who, even after having it explained to them, would rather dismiss people's concerns than admit the show could be flawed. You can like a show and still acknowledge it's not perfect, you know?

I know lots of people say "well, I don't use 'derpy' in a way intended to mock people with mental disabilities/didn't know 'derpy' could be used that way, so it's okay, kids won't get it". But kids will get it, and just because (hypothetical) you doesn't use it that way doesn't mean nobody will.

Here in the UK, there's a certain charity that's dedicated to helping children with mental disabilities. A charity. I still remember the charity having to legally change its name, because it's previous name actually became a playground slur, the same way people use "r*tard". Kids recognised that the name was used in association with mentally disabled children, and turned that name iinto something hatred and cruel and meant to hurt. So everyone who says that 'derpy' is a nonsense word and kids won't associate it with anything negative is seriously underestimating children's ability to understand and twist words into their own language.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
THANKS FOR DERAILING THE THREAD INTO A SJ BATTLE.

THE DISCUSSION WAS ABOUT TRANSFORMER FANS BEING IGNORED.

SOMETHING YOU JUST DID.

THANKS A LOT CUNT CRACKERS.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry for discussing something that's explicitly referenced in the secret. Sorry for being uncomfortable and daring to express my feelings on the subject. Next time I'll be sure to ask permission before commenting on the content of a secret, kay?

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

Jesus, will those assholes ever stop?

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[identity profile] ginseng-tea-cat.livejournal.com 2012-01-28 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL see look the secret is about girls whining that they are being ignored and then they whine more when ppl dun pay attention to them in the secret responses.

All women want are attention attention attention XD

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
wow, overreaction much?

People like you are the reason "SJ battles" NEED to exist. Ugh. How dare those people want to be treated with respect and have their feelings considered, am I right?

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[identity profile] mskye.livejournal.com 2012-01-29 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
"CUNT CRACKERS"

That sound delicious!

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, come one, did you really NOT see this coming? The second I saw the secret, I just KNEW the thread would go there....

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow this secret is getting trolled to all hell.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
OH GOD SHUT UP JUST SHUT UP.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
....did you seriously censor out "retard."

[identity profile] ginseng-tea-cat.livejournal.com 2012-01-28 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh shut the fuck up. I dun know who that person is but if you even fucking say the r-word ppl will fucking dog pile you >.<

It's no fucking wonder they felt they HAD to censor it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I get that people hate SJ. God knows I've seen shitloads of stories here about the crap people have faced from so-called SJ warriors. But fuck me, all of a sudden nobody is allowed to say anything if they see something that's ableist or racist or sexist or anything else? Because, what, they might offend people by being offended?

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
The point is that being offended doesn't mean you are right and people are in fact allowed to disagree and not find something offensive.

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Oh shut up you SJ bitch. Go do something useful with your time, like actual activism.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
National Spastic Society >> Scope, right?

And the words you refer to as insulting would be... Spaz, spacka, spack, etc, I suppose.

Also, 'Derpy' the pony seems more like a thick Ralph Wiggum type character with extra clumsy rather than somebody with an actual mental illness. Last I checked, being low on intelligence wasn't an actual disability.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-28 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing is, I think some people would argue that Ralph is mentally disabled. It's not low intelligence so much that he doesn't react to things the way we might expect and he doesn't seem to understand social situations. He's also been seen wetting himself and has a voice inside his head that tells him to hurt people. But at the end of the day, Ralph is a character on the Simpsons. My Little Pony is aimed much younger, and presents itself as morality tale.

And yeah, I guessed Spastic. I remember that being the go-to insult at school, moreso than retard.

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Last I checked, being low on intelligence wasn't an actual disability.

You do realize that's basically the definition of intellectual disability/mental retardation, right?

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, for fucks sake.

You are the reason people cannot stand "SJ" posters.

You know what the worst part is? You make things worse. You always focus on the negative. Make up issues. Scream and yell about things that you find insulting but nobody else does.

You are making things worse for people like my brother. For people like me.

My brother has Down Syndrome. He is 34. He works in a library, lives in an assisted apartment, and volunteers his time at the local hospital.

His name is David. I was born with, amongst other things, a severe cleft palate. I couldn't pronounce my brothers name correctly I called him "dipsy" thats how it sounded. To this day he is called "dipsy" people at work, at the place he works, the hospital. It's what he likes. He says "my friends call me."

Some SJ jackass went up to my brother when they heard someone at the library call him "dipsy" this jerk went on and on to my brother about how horrible it was. How mean. The person demanded to speak with the library director about this "injustice".

My brother still gets upset about "that person" he cries. He says "why was that person so mean to--"

Why? I can't answer that.


Why are YOU so damn determined to find fault with everything? To find evil everywhere? To take a simple, innocent and fun moment and twist it into hate.


YOU are doing nothing to help people. Nothing. You are creating hurt, evil and hate where it doesn't exist.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
That's awful that that happened to your brother. I'm really sorry. But I also don't think the comment you replied to was intended to cause hurt and evil. Just because one person did something disgusting and hurtful doesn't mean everyone else who comments on something even marginally related should be tarred with that brush. Again, I'm so sorry.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
same could be said for you and your silencing effort.

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
I'm disabled and I don't want to be called dipsy.

It's not about forcing everyone to be ~PC~, it's about trying to get people to fucking consider how others want to be treated. For your brother it's being called by his nickname, for me and a bunch of others it's NOT being called by ANY name.

DIFFERENT PEOPLE ARE OFFENDED BY DIFFERENT THINGS AND YOU LOSE NOTHING BY NOT BEING AN ASSHOLE TO PEOPLE WHO ASK YOU TO STOP DOING SOMETHING

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
That's sad :C
I think you are right. People should acknowledge that concepts can be problematic even when their intentions aren't meant to be!!! This charity is the good example for it.
It's not about being "wrong" or "right". It's about trying to prevent problems.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Oh fuck you so very much you stupid cunt. This was an interesting thread and then you had to pull that card. Thanks for once again working to invalidate a useful effort to win brownie points.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-29 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
Jesus Christ. Look, SJ all you want, but if you're going to mention that charity you should at least get your fucking facts straight.

1. They are not for people with mental disabilities; mental disabilities is one of the effects of the condition they are most associated with.

2. They are not just for children, but for all disabled people.

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