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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-02-15 07:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1870 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1870 ⌋


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[identity profile] seiberwing.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
You should not hurt yourself so that other people will love you. I cannot begin to list how many ways this is unhealthy.

[identity profile] rosehiptea.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
I was thinking the same thing.

Also, I hate to preach, but if he's that opposed to dating a bisexual woman ... well, that's not good, is what I'm saying.

OP, it's easy for me to sit here and say you could do better but it sounds like you could. I hope you feel better about all this soon.

[identity profile] seiberwing.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Whether or not the guy's good enough, I'm not sure the OP's in any shape for a relationship. There's love and then there's...then there's this. This is not a good thing.

[identity profile] rosehiptea.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
I guess "good enough" wasn't really great phrasing on my part. But if that attitude is real it does suck IMO. But anyway, yeah, the OPs state of mind is more relevant.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-16 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
Well, assumptions about friends happens all the time. I mean, I'm sure everyone has that friend that if asked, they'd say "me date him/her? LOL XD!" even if they love them. So if he has her in the friendzone because he's never considered dating a girl like her, that really sucks, but it may not be intentional. Of course, it may, which means she ought to seek out someone who can think of her "that way".

[identity profile] rosehiptea.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it's hard to tell from this what he actually thinks, and not wanting to date someone even though you care about them isn't inherently negative.

Still, either way she ought to seek out someone who does want to date her rather than wish he did... easy for me to say though.

[identity profile] sweeneytodd.livejournal.com 2012-02-16 06:13 am (UTC)(link)
Unrequited love? Been there. Done that. Didn't even stop and look at the t-shirts. Most of the time, the guy isn't what you're really looking for anyways. Easier said than done, but once you're over it, it's so freaking liberating.