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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-07-08 05:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #184 ]


⌈ Secret Post #184 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2007-07-09 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
Do you also say 'whatever floats your boat!' to pedophiles? I mean, hey! it's only a sexual fetish after all! And men who only get off on women screaming when they rape them?

The phrase 'whatever floats your boat' should only apply as long as other people aren't getting harmed. If fantasies start to circle around killing people and other things of violent nature, there certainly is a reason to worry. Of course in many cases these fantasies won't be acted on, but in some it happens and things get ugly for *other* people.

I'm a tolerant person, but tolerance should only go as far as reasonable thought, and should not be abused as an excuse for everything and anything.

[identity profile] allsunday.livejournal.com 2007-07-09 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
Do us all a favor and educate yourself about these fetishes before you start spewing crap like this, anony-mousie. Rape fantasy doesn't actually involve harming anyone, and eroguro is a purely media-based phenomenon. People who like eroguro aren't turned on by real physical violence or blood anymore than people who like rape fantasy are turned on by actual rape. The entire point is that it's fantasy.

S&M often does do physical harm, and that's a well-accepted and highly-practiced kink. If you had been asked about S&M, I'm sure even you'd readily admit that it applies to the "float your boat" philosophy. Rape fantasy and eroguro are no different.

As with all "violent" fetishes, as long as both partners are consenting, trust each other, and there's a safe word in place, there's no problem. None of the kinks I've mentioned are even remotely similar to pedophilia or actual rape, and shame on you for implying such.

(Anonymous) 2007-07-09 08:25 am (UTC)(link)
I enjoy action movies where people blow up. I will never blow a person up, but I can't help but laugh when I see it happen in a fictional setting. I'm sure the same is true for the secret poster. They get off on eroguro, but it's just an art form. Most people who appreciate the art form to not run around chopping each other's limbs off for sexual gratification.

You dragging out pedophilia as an example shows just how little you understand about people and their interests. An interest in something not deemed acceptable by others is not a crime. I'm interested in speeding down the highway over the posted limit of 60pmh. Am I a criminal? D=

(Anonymous) 2007-07-09 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
"I don't want to be this way", says the secret. So you aren't helping.

(Anonymous) 2007-07-09 09:58 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people long for "normal" when there's nothing wrong with them. Perhaps they don't resent their fetish so much as they resent people like you trying to convince them that they're deviant freaks who need to be jailed for having such a fetish.

[identity profile] allsunday.livejournal.com 2007-07-09 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
IAWTC. I doubt she'd ever say "I don't want to be this way" if other people had never tried to convince her that she's somehow bad for being the way she is. If people were supportive of her perfectly natural and rather widespread kinks instead of knee-jerking like uneducated monkeys, I doubt she would have ever felt the need to post this secret in the first place.

In other words, all her emotional problems with this particular issue could be completely resolved if people like Anonymous #1 could learn to pull their heads out of their asses.

(Anonymous) 2007-07-09 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, that's a highly uneducated response.

There's a big, big difference between getting off on something in fiction and getting off on it in real life.

I get off on violent hentai. Tentacle rape, snuff, that sort of thing. It's a fantasy, it's not real, I just like it if it's drawn images or written stories. In real life, rape and violence disgust me in ways I can't even put into words.

Just because you're into something in a fantasy and fictional context does not mean there is any desire to act on it in real life.