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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #1891 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1891 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who was bullied all throughout elementary school, middle school, high school, and into college, I would never wish death upon anyone. I would never wish the misery of being suicidal on anyone.

Yeah, it sucks to be bullied and it has far reaching effects in life. Yeah, most bullies don't even remember being a bully or the events that are burned into your own brain. Most go on to be normal adults with normal lives. And that sucks, but I still wouldn't wish death upon them.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT, but well goody for you!

(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations?

I'll never understand this whole "Bullies are people too! How dare a victim say anything mean about them!" attitude people have. I have far more sympathy for victims than I do for bullies, and while wishing death on someone is harsh, it also isn't uncommon. Humans are irrational, and as much as we don't like to think it, sometimes we say (and wish for) awful things. So if a single person is making one's life miserable, I wouldn't blame the victim for wanting the bully to fall off the face of the earth. If it makes life easier, if only for a single day, I don't blame them for wanting something bad to happen to their bully.

I'd also say being bullied is far worse than just something that "sucks". Talk about an understatement.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-08 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say you couldn't say mean things about them, I just said I wouldn't ever wish death on anyone. There is a HUGE difference. And while I agree that i can be a natural emotional jump to wishing death upon those who hurt you, I disagree that it's ever a good thought. But people have different philosophies on life, so I imagine this is one topic we will never agree on.

Ok, so bullying doesn't suck? Should I have added more adjectives? Gone into how it's a fiery miasma of pain and suffering that one can never get over and creates a black hole of sadness within ones heart? Would that have been better? Sucks is an appropriate term, and for me encapsulates all the misery and badness that bullying results in. It's a nice easy satisfying word.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 06:43 pm (UTC)(link)
This.