[ SECRET POST #1891 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1891 ⌋


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Comments

[kindlycoyote.livejournal.com]

Sorry, I have to disagree in part (assaulted is perhaps a bit strong of a word, but as someone who as RPed and been harassed ICly it sure feels that way sometimes). In fact I was about to type a response to the OP about how I was in a RP experience remarkably similar, and the guy was pressuring my character into sex no matter how much OOCly I told him that I was uncomfortable with his character doing that. Wait, let me see if I can find a article I read once that fit my own situation and sounds a tiny bit like the OP's.

http://wow.joystiq.com/2010/04/25/all-the-worlds-a-stage-getting-too-attached-to-a-character/#continued

Look at the replies too. I am not saying the OP's situation is as extreme as the person writing in was, but pressuring someone to engage in something they are uncomfortable with (whether it is because of time or otherwise) is sleezy. Whether it is done OOCly or ICly. In roleplay, some people are in it for cybering and do not respect the feelings of those who aren't. At the very least, this is selfishness, and the most, it is sexual harassment.

OP, you need to lay down the law. Tell this person it is making you uncomfortable, and tell them to stop it. If they make protests based on how their character is, tell them you are willing to RP a resolution ICly. (Basically, do a little mini-plot where you character breaks and confronts the character on the way they behave, and have the other character come to a understanding even if it is 'if I dont stop, this person will break my fingers'.) If they still protest, drop 'em. You can find a new RP partner and trust me, it is NEVER worth the stress.