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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1907 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]



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(Anonymous) 2012-03-23 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm going anon for obvious reasons.

I can agree with the mods to an extent. I mean, rape is horrible, period. To everyone. However, I can see where the mods are coming from. I think they're trying to say that because asexuals already have a deep aversion to sex. It's like they have to deal with that on top of the rape.

...though I guess one could argue that anyone in that position would have an aversion to sex. In that situation, a previously sexual victim would be just as disgusted/horrified by the idea of sex as an asexual reason...

so yeah, the mods are still wrong. Instead of running off to prosecute the mods/fest why don't you just try explaining your perspective on the issue? Sometimes people don't even realize they're being insensitive/ignorant/etc, and having people come at them like a pack of animals doesn't make anyone understand any better.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
But asexuals don't have a "deep aversion to sex" they don't care about sex. Asexuals can have aversions or sexual hangups like most people, but the primary criteria for being asexual isn't a strong aversion or disgust of sex and sexual acts.

To me it sounds like the mods are sexual people who really don't understand what asexuality is.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Some asexuals do, very much so.

I'm an asexual on the 'sex sounds amazing but people are a turn-off' end of the spectrum, but I've known plenty of 'meh, whatever' asexuals, and quite a few who have a marked aversion to it, to the extent of being freaked out by sex scenes.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT - I'll just quote myself since I think you missed this part: Asexuals can have aversions or sexual hangups like most people,

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Some sexual people have deep aversions to sex as well, for various reasons.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
These mods? LISTEN? AH no. People have tried about other prompts this year: someone prompting with a prompt that reflected their own coming out in that it had little impact and, in the end, ultimately didn't matter and the mods were quite rude, meanwhile a het (w. asexual) incest prompt and a m/m incest prompt were totally fine and respective of the queer experience.

Listening is like earth logic, they don't employ it.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 06:12 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, that's awful. Especially when someone went out on a limb and put their story out there like that. :/

I'd actually never heard of this challenge before and it sounds like something I'd be interested in, but after reading everything here, no thank you.