[ SECRET POST #1907 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Disney's Gargoyles]


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[X-Men: First Class]


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[keanu reeves]


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11. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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13. [SPOILERS for The Walking Dead]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

There is one aspect I could think of that might have an impact. As an asexual person I haven't had sex for years. If I am subjected to rape it would not only be unwanted sex, but it would be sex for the first time after a very long time. For a sexual person, even though the act is horrifying, it is something they have a different frame of reference to fall back on later when trying to cope. They KNOW even though rape is terrible, sex itself isn't. I have no such frame of reference so to me it would be the actual sex that was terrible and might even change my view of it from disconnected to hateful.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a sexual virgin. So does that mean my "aspect" makes the rape worse for me than for you, because you have at least had some sexual experience?

Wouldn't it be worse for me because I am sexual and want to have sex at some point?

(Answer: No, it's fucking horrible for everyone. Stop.)

[(Anonymous)]

I never said it wasn't fucking horrible so don't put words in my mouth. I said for someone who hadn't had sex, or had sex and didn't enjoy it, the process of recovery might be harder. If you are a virgin who hadn't had a pleasurable sexual experience yet, then yes that includes you too. The idea is that the victim hasn't experience the alternative to unwanted sex to know that the experience itself isn't supposed to be horrible and it became so because of the crime committed by the rapist.

[(Anonymous)]

Read what the anon above you said, please.

Rape is Rape. To a sexual person, even with the frame reference you mention, it's still a horrible experience, and they might end up being triggered. Some people might even decide not to have sex ever again... going from liking an experience to hate it with all their heart.

[mika-kun.livejournal.com]

Not all sexual people have sex, or have sex frequently, so the sex after a really long time bit is possible for sexual people too.

Additionally, while sexual people (who have previously had sex) may have previously enjoyed sex they may find it unbearable after their rape due to the association. Thus, the frame of reference you mentioned may not actually be useful for the purpose of recovery.