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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1907 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Disney's Gargoyles]


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[X-Men: First Class]


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[keanu reeves]


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11. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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12. [SPOILERS for Kuragehime]



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13. [SPOILERS for The Walking Dead]



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15. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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[identity profile] agnes-bean.livejournal.com 2012-03-24 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
+1000

I ship both and agree that both are twisted (at least when we're talking S6 Buffy), but they're twisted in very, VERY different ways, and I think it's easy to see why some people are more okay with Spuffy, even S6 Spuffy than Sansa/Sandor.

As you say, it's about balance of power. S6 Spuffy was abusive, but it was MUTUALLY abusive, all season (let's not forget that time Buffy beat Spike to a god damned pulp). It was messed up because he was souless and she was depressed and self loathing, but it was EQUAL all the same.*

Sansa/Sandor, however, is an unequal relationship on so, so many levels. She is a powerless child, FFS.


*(Insert rant here about how the attempted rape was terrible on a meta narrative level for lots of reasons, but IMO doesn't really seem all the unforgivable in the context of canon because Spike was souless and then got one and then blah blah blah I don't mind that she forgave him).