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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1907 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Disney's Gargoyles]


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[X-Men: First Class]


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[keanu reeves]


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11. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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12. [SPOILERS for Kuragehime]



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13. [SPOILERS for The Walking Dead]



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14. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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15. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #272.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a 'repulsed-variant' asexual. I've got to admit being raped is one of my deepest fears. I've got no frame of reference for sex being a good thing, and I'm disgusted at even the thought of me participating in a sexual act.
Would rape be 'worse' for me? Perhaps my recovery would be harder than someone who had a healthy attitude towards sex to begin with; perhaps it would be easier because it would validate everything I've ever felt and believed about sex, where a sexual person could have something they'd enjoyed previously ruined for them.
But everyone reacts to trauma like rape in different ways. You can't take a group of people and say 'they'd find it worse' because that group is made of individuals who've all had different experiences and feelings and opinions. Rape is a violation and it's bad for everyone. The degree of impact it has on a person depends on who the person is, not what they are.