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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1907 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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11. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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[identity profile] urplesquirrel.livejournal.com 2012-03-24 01:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's the thing, anon. There is no medical definition for virginity. The old standard of the hymen being torn? Many women these days lead active lifestyles that cause their hymen to be torn long before they ever have sex. Without a single, overarching definition that describes what virginity is, that means it's pretty much a free-for-all as to what does and does not "count" as losing virginity.

A woman or girl who has never had previous sexual activity and been raped is completely within her rights to define herself as still being a virgin, and say "I'm a virgin until I choose to have sex with somebody."

(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not talking about from a medical standpoint.

Without a single, overarching definition that describes what virginity is, that means it's pretty much a free-for-all as to what does and does not "count" as losing virginity.

It's a person who has not had sex, generally speaking. I can see the "virgin until I decide to have sex" too.

A woman or girl who has never had previous sexual activity and been raped is completely within her rights to define herself as still being a virgin, and say "I'm a virgin until I choose to have sex with somebody."

I can accept that as a personal (as in valid, but not the default) definition, no problem! :D I'm also okay with "born-again virgins" where someone has a sordid sexual past that they decide to leave behind and have a "second virginity." Even though the default assumption is probably "no sex ever." (If I knew a friend had been raped and then talked about herself as a virgin, I would be surprised, but I'd roll with it no problem!) It's [livejournal.com profile] mika_kun arguing that rape isn't sex, so therefore does not count period.