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fandomsecrets2012-03-23 07:01 pm
[ SECRET POST #1907 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1907 ⌋
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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]

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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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(Anonymous) 2012-03-24 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)Without a single, overarching definition that describes what virginity is, that means it's pretty much a free-for-all as to what does and does not "count" as losing virginity.
It's a person who has not had sex, generally speaking. I can see the "virgin until I decide to have sex" too.
A woman or girl who has never had previous sexual activity and been raped is completely within her rights to define herself as still being a virgin, and say "I'm a virgin until I choose to have sex with somebody."
I can accept that as a personal (as in valid, but not the default) definition, no problem! :D I'm also okay with "born-again virgins" where someone has a sordid sexual past that they decide to leave behind and have a "second virginity." Even though the default assumption is probably "no sex ever." (If I knew a friend had been raped and then talked about herself as a virgin, I would be surprised, but I'd roll with it no problem!) It's