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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-10 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1925 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had to do that. Not the abortion itself - but that you felt the need to lie about it and you needed the money. It's awful that we live in a culture where it's shameful.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
+10000

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[identity profile] ditdatdo.livejournal.com 2012-04-10 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Nailed it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

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[identity profile] fairyday.livejournal.com 2012-04-10 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I would honestly find donating to help someone get an abortion a much, much worthier cause than fixing a computer.

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[identity profile] hunter-san.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
This. I'm not going to donate money to someone I'm fond of online for a computer. Computers are useful and semi-important but there is no time frame. But for an abortion? I'm going to give you that money asap.

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[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_thirty2flavors/ 2012-04-11 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Same, when I finished reading this I was just thinking "I'd rather give a friend money to pay for an abortion if they needed it though..."

I mean, I get that that's not necessarily a prevalent attitude, but still.

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[identity profile] marshwiggledyke.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Absolutely this. If I couldn't help you pay, I'd help you signal boost. I'd consider it a more urgent issue than a broken computer.
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[identity profile] visp.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely.

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[identity profile] fairyday.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
...this was actually a misfire, but I agree with the the thing I accidentally commented on, too!

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, me too

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[identity profile] kikkyo.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not really for abortions myself, but I'd have a lot more respect for someone who came out and admitted they couldn't do it without help than to lie about it.

Pro-life/pro-choice is a huge, highly emotional and highly personal debate for a lot of people, and I just feel like it would have been more respectful of this person to respect others' opinions and let them make the decision to help her for themselves rather than misleading them. It just feels like she lied because she thought she could get more money if half her followers didn't realize that according to their own personal beliefs they were contributing in murder (not wanting to get into the whole pro-whichever debate though, of course, just saying that this is the part that really gets to me - the fact that any group that would feel so strongly about an issue would be tricked into contributing to it against their will).

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[identity profile] madrigog.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Great comment! Hell, if I was a fan of someone who needed to fund an abortion, I'd donate.

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[identity profile] sephystabbity.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. Have an internet hug OP.

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[identity profile] mika-kun.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
This.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yep.
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[identity profile] carma-bee.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
yep, this was my reaction to the secret

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
I don't care what it's for, you should never, ever lie to someone about what you're going to use money for if they gave it to you for a specific reason, IMO. Particularly when it involves an issue that people feel so strongly on one way or the other. I doubt you'd be happy if you gave money to someone to fix their car, and they instead donated it to an anti-abortion group.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
The lying is not good, but lying to get money for a necessary medical procedure is not at all the same as lying to donate money to a political group.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Still not appropriate.

It doesn't matter what it was for, it was deceitful and I'm guessing that the OP lied because people would find it objectionable.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
In that case, she was completely justified.

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[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Kinda? The only bothersome part of the secret is the deceit, but I do in fact consider that somewhat bothersome.
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[identity profile] spicandspan89.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
MTE.

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[identity profile] dinerstate.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. \:

Really though, I hope everything went well and that the OP is doing better.