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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-15 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1930 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1930 ⌋

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[identity profile] lady-kinky-chan.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I know that feel OP.

I've literally BEEN Annie before with states of catatonia and even dissociation while in a relationship. I desperately wanted my boyfriend to stay strong for me and keep me anchored to some semblance of sanity, but that's a lot to ask of a person and he couldn't handle it and he had to leave because he couldn't bare to watch me suffer without knowing how to help me.

Everyone wants to be a Katniss, a Johanna, or even a Primrose, but if I'm honest with myself I probably have the most in common with Annie and thus was extremely drawn to Finnick.

The thing is though, that we can't spend our days wishing for a Finnick to just come into our lives and fix everything.

We're not as damaged as Annie, we can overcome our trauma and depression and become stronger people.

You'll be so much happier if you can credit yourself for your stability and growth instead of just your mate. Support is important, but you need to be the person making the MOST effort and have the BIGGEST commitment to getting better.

You can do this, OP.