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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-15 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1930 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1930 ⌋

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[identity profile] fierceawakening.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's bad to want to find someone who'll love you despite your mental health issues, OP. What I do think would be bad, and I can't tell if you're doing this or not, is to tell yourself "I'm holding out for my Finnick" and use that as an excuse to not do the best job of taking care of yourself and of healing that you can.

As people have said here and your friends are telling you, it's not easy to deal with a partner's mental illness. It takes its toll on the relationship, even if that person is wonderfully loving, like Finnick.

Let me put it to you this way: If you found your Finnick, would it be fair to that person not to work on your healing, to make things harder for himself and you, when you could be doing your best to be as okay as you can?

No one has to be perfect, but I believe we all owe it to ourselves and one another to take care of ourselves as best we can.