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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-13 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #1958 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1958 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 104 secrets from Secret Submission Post #280.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] harpsi-fizz.livejournal.com 2012-05-14 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I have no idea either. It almost feels like they (the people who say that) want every culture to be completely separate.

Pay them no mind, I say, and here's why I say it: it doesn't take much to tear someone down, but to offer alternatives shows thoughtfulness. I cannot imagine the thoughtful alternative to what that person said to you. Don't do This doesn't cut it. Every "Don't Do This" worth anything can be phrased in a productive way.

"Only eat ___ food."
"Call them ____, not Mexican."
"Give them a 100% tip if you have to eat there."
(Obviously I'm only using those as ridiculous examples to illustrate both points. The person who messaged you sounds like they were just having emotions at you, which sometimes happens on Tumblr)