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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-22 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #281.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Because people are just totally obligated to do what their SO wants, regardless of their own personal standards, amirite?

No thank you.

I don't equate "attraction" and "love" with questionless indulgence in weird fetish bullshit.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
No, but the girlfriend gets to decide if the lack of RP sex is a deal breaker for her, too.

Look, not everyone has an exactly perfect bag of kinks to line up with their partners. There is always going to be something that gets you hot which your partner finds ridiculous. If you are able to humour them on occasion, there is a chance they will be willing to try one of your fantasies out. If you aren't able to accommodate, that's okay too - just know that if this kink is a big part of their sexual life, they might one day decide to break up because you're incompatible. I do think OP is being short-sighted if their main objection to trying a very low-risk kink (seriously, a written sex scene?) is that their girlfriend is too fat.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-23 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
You're also ignoring the fact that they mentioned their partner is too short, and has the wrong hair color. As someone already pointed out, they could just be using that to describe the fact their partner is pretty much the exact opposite of the character she wants to rp as.