[ SECRET POST #1967 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #281.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

What-if doesn't matter. OP's partner didn't ask them to RP noncon or any such thing. They just wanted to be a character that OP thought they were too fat to be.

[smittenlotus.livejournal.com]

I feel the secret is vague. That might have been part of it, but my point is if OP felt uncomfortable with the scenario then that's that. He or she shouldn't feel obligated to participate in something like that if they think it's weird or uncomfortable, and the way others are replying it gives me the impression they're thinking OP should've just gone along with it regardless. I find that disturbing.

[otakugal15.livejournal.com]

I don't think the "fat" has that much to do with it. It may just be a thing of the partner couldn't see their SO in the role, period. Sometimes that just doesn't work.

And, if this IS a guy who posted it, he may have just been completely turned off the idea of picturing his girlfriend, who he apparently likes as she is, chubbiness and all, as a skinny as fuck bishi uke boy.

I mean, if for whatever reason my dude wanted me to picture him as some skinny, big boobed, anime moe chick, I'd be turned off by that as well. If only for the mere fact that I'd be laughing my ass off at the idea of it cause he'd most likely suggest it as a joke just to get me giggling.

[(Anonymous)]

If fat didn't have much to do with it, why post their weight?

[otakugal15.livejournal.com]

Because it's jarring?

It's not necessarily a bad thing.

My bf (in my example) is a big guy and has a gut. If he suddenly wanted me to picture him as a skinny as fuck, almost anorexic, bishi guy for an RP scenario, it'd throw me for a loop, too. It'd weird me out. Because I just don't like that image. I like him as is.

i dunno how he'd react if I did the same thing, but me as a skinny anime girl or a skinny bishi uke boy, I'd like to think he'd be a little weirded out as well. Because it's not me and he likes my body as is. Chubbiness and all.

[(Anonymous)]

I just feel that the specificity is demeaning. You could have the same secret posted with more respect by phrasing it as you did, that they were bigger, and that you weren't into it and that you like them as they are.

[(Anonymous)]

They mentioned her differing hair color and height, too. And, you know, genitals.

[otakugal15.livejournal.com]

This. Everyone is so stuck on the weight, but other things were mentioned as well.