[ SECRET POST #1967 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1967 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

So we should go for the rude guys, because god forbid we're in a relationship with a nice, patient guy that's built up over years of friendship and support but which lacks...I don't know ~passion or ~magnetism, amirite? Those are the things that have staying power and will build a great relationship. Attractive jerks.

[(Anonymous)]

No, you shouldn't date anyone who views their attention, support, and compassion demonstrated for however long as coins that they can magically redeem for sex -- because they're earned it! They've been there for you so long!

That's a manipulative douchey thing to do. That's not being a friend, or building a great relationship that will last. That's being an entitled jerk who feels that their "friendship" and "attention" entitles them to a relationship with you, no matter what you want.

So the lesson is: don't date manipulative fuckheads, no matter if they're rude or nice. In the end, they're still a fuckhead. One's just more upfront about it than the other.

[raichu100.livejournal.com]

+1

[leikomgwtfbbq.livejournal.com]

This, entirely.

[thesaneminority.livejournal.com]

Keep in mind that "jerks", when used by a Nice Guy, is basically codeword for "guys who aren't me".

[elialshadowpine]

... er, no, you should not go for guys that are quite obviously only being friends in hopes that they will get something out of you.

[raichu100.livejournal.com]

I think the point is that if she doesn't feel romantically inclined towards him she's not going to be happy with him, even if he builds up "years of friendship or support". Passion and magnetism aren't related - maybe that's something that's important to any given girl, and maybe not, but the point is you can't build a relationship on empty feelings and settling for something you don't really want just because he happens to be ~supportive~.