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lmao I just CANNOT with that self-victimizing shit

That comic accurately described so many dudes I've known it's sad really

Does this actually work though? I mean, it seems girls can smell this kind of synchophant usually. I don't think these guys get to the stage where she'd depend on them so much all that often.

It can if the guy passes off as a genuine friend.

that is...hella creepy.

Ugh. And another thing: some guys really just have a simple hopeful crush on one of their friends, yet these kinds of dickwads can make someone really paranoid of all demonstrations of niceness if they have experience with one of them, because it's so hard to figure out who are Nice Guys (or Girls too -- I know one personally :\) and who are just guys who are nice. It's enough to make you want to only date jerks because at least there you're more sure that if they're hiding something, it's only more jerkiness.

It's enough to make you want to only date jerks because at least there you're more sure that if they're hiding something, it's only more jerkiness.

True dat.

THIS

I'm astonished that you know a Nice Girl (tm), but also a little bit sorry about that.

She was actually a lot like the above cartoon -- very sneakily trying to always "be there" and do sweet things for and emotionally manipulate a certain guy to show that she liked him. And was more "I deserve him because I'm hot and popular and I like him!" Because you know, clearly no guy would ever refuse a hot girl who's into him unless he's purposely being spiteful.

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I will never not love this

A+

Haha, sounds about right.

...this just seems cowardly. Not so much Nice Guy. But I could be getting that wrong...I thought Nice Guy was more of an entitlement complex than a subtle, manipulative creeper?

So we should go for the rude guys, because god forbid we're in a relationship with a nice, patient guy that's built up over years of friendship and support but which lacks...I don't know ~passion or ~magnetism, amirite? Those are the things that have staying power and will build a great relationship. Attractive jerks.

No, you shouldn't date anyone who views their attention, support, and compassion demonstrated for however long as coins that they can magically redeem for sex -- because they're earned it! They've been there for you so long!

That's a manipulative douchey thing to do. That's not being a friend, or building a great relationship that will last. That's being an entitled jerk who feels that their "friendship" and "attention" entitles them to a relationship with you, no matter what you want.

So the lesson is: don't date manipulative fuckheads, no matter if they're rude or nice. In the end, they're still a fuckhead. One's just more upfront about it than the other.

This, entirely.

Keep in mind that "jerks", when used by a Nice Guy, is basically codeword for "guys who aren't me".

... er, no, you should not go for guys that are quite obviously only being friends in hopes that they will get something out of you.

I think the point is that if she doesn't feel romantically inclined towards him she's not going to be happy with him, even if he builds up "years of friendship or support". Passion and magnetism aren't related - maybe that's something that's important to any given girl, and maybe not, but the point is you can't build a relationship on empty feelings and settling for something you don't really want just because he happens to be ~supportive~.

(http://hiddlesthecrisscolfer.tumblr.com/post/22655352975/favorite-character-movie-mark-ruffalo-as-david)

Ids that Mark Ruffalo? And if so, what movie is this?

*trying to gather list of movies of his to see*

>_>

It is indeed! It's from the totally adorable-with-ear-jerker-moments film Just Like Heaven (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0425123/). Completely recommend!

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