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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 68 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[personal profile] unicornherds 2012-06-05 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
You can't really expect everyone else to do something you're not willing to do yourself. I know it's scary, and hard, and seems impossible, but try and strike up a conversation yourself. Keep an eye out for clues - ringtones, same taste in clothing or hair or something, pins that give a clue to what they like, etc - and just dive in.

You're going to strike out occasionally. Not everyone will be willing to chat, and not everyone who is willing to chat will become a friend. But you won't get anywhere if you don't try.

Remember: people don't see what's going on in your head, only what you put out there. In other words, people aren't going to notice how terrified and nervous you are and they also won't see how much you want to talk unless you speak up.