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⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

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Why would someone call her/his boyfriend a creep? There's nothing creepy about masturbating in front of your SO. Unless people think masturbation and healthy sexual expression is creepy...

You must be new here.

I've never seen anyone calling people creeps for masturbation, and I'm definitely not new here. Pretty sure you're just trolling.

Nope, not new. I'm just bored with your terrible attempt at trolling and I was trying to start a semi-serious conversation about masturbation.

DA
I'm trying to figure out how or why a voyagerism kink has to stop when you are allowed to touch.

Also, there are several reasons two people wanting to have sex may not want to touch each others genitals right away.
*Foreplay
*Kinks
*No condoms
*Your alien lover's genitals are incompatible with your own
*Waiting for STD tests
*Nervous about oral or penetrative sex
*Wanting to take things slow
*Just started taking the pill
*Have a superpower that makes consensual sex an impossibility when touching someone
*And many more possibilies, silly or otherwise.

I'm sorry but I can't help finding your typo on voyeurism really cute, because voyage means 'travel' in french. So basically a kink for people going on a trip...

... I bet it exists, somewhere.

It has to.

"voyagerism kink"

I have spent many a summer as a park ranger on the fur trade route in Northern Ontario. So to me, this means these guys:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voyageurs

Unf, baby, you can plumerai ma tête any time you want. I'll bring the sash, you bring the paddle.

(FTR, I also agree with the rest of your comment!)

I don't think they would call him a creep for the masturbation itself but for supposedly forcing OP to masturbate in front of him when OP is so obviously uncomfortable.

OP I know you most likely wanted to try something new and were nervous because of it. I hope you actually talked to your SO about how you felt and didn't just 'go through it' for him.

No, I was the one who said "I need to masturbate ... do you want to watch?" and he wanted to. Except I was kinda nervous about doing that in front of someone because I never had before. He sort of rubbed my shoulders and ran his hand through my hair while I did, and it was really nice and intimate and exactly what I'd wanted to happen. I was just nervous at first to do that in front of anyone, even my boyfriend. And thinking about Mark/Eduardo helped calm me down.

I'd never let him force me to do something I didn't want to do. He would be out the door so fast he'd get whiplash!

Man, I'm glad you jumped in here and defended your bf before I had a chance to reply. You say you were nervous about a sexual situation and people start hinting that maybe you were raped! Come on, guys!

Yeah, I appreciate the concern ... but I was doing this intimate thing I'd only ever done by myself, right next to someone while they were staring at me. Of course I was nervous. But I also really wanted to do it and was happy I had.
I'm more concerned that people read my secret and started to think I'd been forced into doing something I didn't want to do. Either people are very cynical or have had some very bad experiences, which is just plain awful and I'm sorry if I dredged up those memories.

"supposedly forcing OP to masturbate in front of him"

That's what I meant.
I didn't read it as forced but I had the feeling some oversensitive person out there would react to it that way

Hm. I guess I'm not used to reading secrets through the eyes of the easily offended. I'm more offended by the implication that nervousness during sex is equal to rape. I seem to recall that we've had some wank regarding this though.

If I never did anything personal that I wanted to do but felt nervous about, I probably wouldn't have done 80% of the things I'm most proud of myself for trying.

But I guess on a secrets comm, people get so used to hearing stories about horrible things happening to secret-makers they start making assumptions, and then people start assuming that other people will start making assumptions. Lol, it's like a vicious cycle of suspicion >_>

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