[ SECRET POST #1981 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 68 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[countess_k]

I don't think they would call him a creep for the masturbation itself but for supposedly forcing OP to masturbate in front of him when OP is so obviously uncomfortable.

OP I know you most likely wanted to try something new and were nervous because of it. I hope you actually talked to your SO about how you felt and didn't just 'go through it' for him.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

No, I was the one who said "I need to masturbate ... do you want to watch?" and he wanted to. Except I was kinda nervous about doing that in front of someone because I never had before. He sort of rubbed my shoulders and ran his hand through my hair while I did, and it was really nice and intimate and exactly what I'd wanted to happen. I was just nervous at first to do that in front of anyone, even my boyfriend. And thinking about Mark/Eduardo helped calm me down.

I'd never let him force me to do something I didn't want to do. He would be out the door so fast he'd get whiplash!

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Man, I'm glad you jumped in here and defended your bf before I had a chance to reply. You say you were nervous about a sexual situation and people start hinting that maybe you were raped! Come on, guys!

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I appreciate the concern ... but I was doing this intimate thing I'd only ever done by myself, right next to someone while they were staring at me. Of course I was nervous. But I also really wanted to do it and was happy I had.
I'm more concerned that people read my secret and started to think I'd been forced into doing something I didn't want to do. Either people are very cynical or have had some very bad experiences, which is just plain awful and I'm sorry if I dredged up those memories.

[(Anonymous)]

"supposedly forcing OP to masturbate in front of him"

That's what I meant.
I didn't read it as forced but I had the feeling some oversensitive person out there would react to it that way

[fingalsanteater]

Hm. I guess I'm not used to reading secrets through the eyes of the easily offended. I'm more offended by the implication that nervousness during sex is equal to rape. I seem to recall that we've had some wank regarding this though.

[intrigueing.livejournal.com]

If I never did anything personal that I wanted to do but felt nervous about, I probably wouldn't have done 80% of the things I'm most proud of myself for trying.

But I guess on a secrets comm, people get so used to hearing stories about horrible things happening to secret-makers they start making assumptions, and then people start assuming that other people will start making assumptions. Lol, it's like a vicious cycle of suspicion >_>