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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-05 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1981 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1981 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
As others have said, there's no "average" or "right" or "wrong" when it comes to these things, and IIRC (though my undergrad psych degree was completed eons ago) Kinsey's work was widened by others to include thoughts and tendencies more than just experience, so it's not seen now as limited a scale as Kinsey had first created. /unhelpful blather

At the end of the day, though, it's about what you're comfortable with and how you wish to act on it. There's no right or wrong answer; there's just life, and it's going to suck as much as it's going to be awesome. I hope the comments you see here help you realize you're not alone, and because I love to give advice even when it's not helpful in the slightest, I'll just say that my (female) partner and I met through fandom eight years ago. She had been married to a man, and the majority of my history had been with guys as well. The majority of our online friends and acquaintances didn't have a problem with it, and though it was hard to tell our families both that we were in a homosexual relationship and that we'd met online (because I honestly don't know which was the bigger stigma at the time), she was included in all the family pictures when my sister married two weeks ago. It's been a hard road to get here, and there are still bumps, but the journey's worth it.

Many hugs to you, OP.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-06 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
TBH this entire thread has been amazingly kind to me and my lack of knowledge. Basically; I love everybody in this bar comm. :D