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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1984 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1984 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Little Shop of Horrors]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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15. http://i.imgur.com/Jxlnf.png
[sort of porny and possible underage; photomanip, Snape/Hermione]

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16. [SPOILER WARNING for Arrested Development]
[TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse, suicide]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual violence, rape, coercion, cult like mentalities, and violence]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for pedophilia]

[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]


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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for body horror, gore]

[Parasyte]


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22. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-08 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
If it's a real possibility, yeah, kick your husband out.

That's a vicious cycle of

being abused -> giving up and believing the abuse -> trying to change -> being abused -> giving up and believing the abuse

that makes everything seem more negative, more hopeless than it is in reality.

It sounds like you need your parents' help, at least for now, but if your husband isn't cooperating or helping or anything, then there is no loss in cutting him out of your life. (but research the legality of the consequences first, to check if there could be any)

Try to get to the situation where you no longer need to rely on people who don't care for you, and where you can keep your son away from their influence.

You can do it, OP. Don't believe that you can't.