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fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm
[ SECRET POST #1984 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1984 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Little Shop of Horrors]
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[Sherlock BBC]
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[sort of porny and possible underage; photomanip, Snape/Hermione]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [SPOILER WARNING for Arrested Development]
[TRIGGER WARNING for incest]
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[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]
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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for body horror, gore]
[Parasyte]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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(Anonymous) 2012-06-09 02:09 am (UTC)(link)I recently went back to my therapist myself and for months I wondered if it was really necessary because 'other people were much worse off' and 'it's not that bad'. Trust me, when you mention this to your therapist he or she will immediately reassure you that it doesn't matter. You can't compare situations like that, you can't measure pain.
If you feel you need help, then find someone. If you can't afford a therapist, maybe there's a support group nearby.
I agree with many others here that you should get away from your husband either by kicking him out or by leaving yourself. You should decide what's best legally, financially, and of course for your child. I'd suggest moving in with your parents, but that doesn't seem to be an option. I wouldn't be so sure about your parents' feelings; depression can cloud your judgment about stuff like that and they are helping you out.
Also, I can't imagine raising a child even on my best day. If you've been feeling that miserable and yet you've been taking care of your child, I think that's pretty amazing and something to be proud of.