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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-15 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #1991 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Because people who like shota aren't usually pedophiles, and vore is fucking fantasy and can't happen the way most people fantasize about it.

Meanwhile, Nazi fetishism is still a very big thing today. Nazis still exist, relatives of those murdered in concentration camps still exist, etc.

You can have an "evil people in sexy uniforms" kink. But that's not what a Nazi kink is. Nazi is specific.

I can only assume you're white, privileged and never talked to anyone or seen talks with survivors, since your shrugging off fetishizing Nazis is rather alarming.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Heaven forbid they just have a different viewpoint. Oh no, it must be *privilege* of course!

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Just like people who like shota aren't necessarily pedophiles, people who have a Nazi kink aren't necessarily racists or sympathizers or Neo-Nazis. If you think Nazi kink is terrible because the Nazis affected real people and still exist today, then you should think shota is terrible too because pedophilia also affects real people.

But no, you just sneer that OP must be white and privileged as if you know anything about him/her, and as if using those words as insults makes anything he/she says invalid.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
People who like shota aren't usually pedophiles (really? jw) but people who have a kink for Nazis usually sympathize with Nazis? I doubt it.

I don't have a Nazi kink but

I can only assume you're white, privileged and never talked to anyone or seen talks with survivors

that's when I stopped taking you seriously. thanks for the double dose of SJW in mah porn

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[personal profile] diorama 2012-06-15 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
The majority of art I've seen with nazi uniforms have been created by fans from Japan.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
because the japanese population in general has a complete understanding of the atrocities that happened in wwii, amirite.

hint: iamnotrite
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[personal profile] diorama 2012-06-16 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say that. I'm responding to the OP who is making the assumption that everyone who plays with this kink in fandom is white.
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[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-06-16 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I wouldn't bring that up in a discussion of how Nazi kink is insensitive.
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[personal profile] diorama 2012-06-16 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
Of course nazi kink is insensitive, but it's silly to assume that everyone who is into it is white.
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[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-06-16 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
I don't necessarily agree with the assumption that everyone who's into Nazi kink is privileged, but Japanese people in Japan are equally privileged to white people in America, and far more notoriously insensitive and ignorant of Holocaust issues.
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[personal profile] diorama 2012-06-16 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
I agree, but so? They aren't white like the OP assumed and which I was responding to.
Edited 2012-06-16 06:21 (UTC)
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[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-06-16 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, fair enough. I thought you were trying to make it into an "oppressed people do this too!!!" thing.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
you sound like the biggest retarded douche bag ever. just so you know.
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[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-06-16 12:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, okay. BRB changing my life.

So which part of that was wrong, exactly?

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
(Not OP)

"Because people who like shota aren't usually pedophiles"

But some are and shota and loli sometimes are used for gromming children.
Yet shota is acepted in fandom because is fiction and not everyone is a pedophile, which is true.
But why aren't other kinks related with RL (like the mentioned in the secret), although many people only like them as fiction? I don't get it.
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[personal profile] cashay 2012-06-16 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
I agree about not fetishizing Nazis but I find your reasoning lacking.

I mean sure most people reading/writing Shota aren't pedophiles but there are a ton of people out there who have suffered from pedophiles. But if someone writes porn about a priest having an affair with an underage boy everyone is all YMMV and YKINMK. Victims of pedophilia also have living relatives and they are ofte still alive themselves.

Saying that it's not okay to write Nazi-porn because the people that died from the hands of the Nazis have relatives still living and the Nazis killed a lot of people and then going ahead and saying it's fine to write shota because that doesn't mean you're a pedophile. Writing Nazi-porn probably doesn't make you a Nazi either.

And yeah Nazis do exist but so do pedophiles. Relatives of those who were murdered are still alive but so are the relatives and victims of pedophilia.

Peoples have suffered by the hand of Nazis and by the hand of pedophiles and saying that one groups suffering means you can fetishize what happened to them but you can't fetishize the uniforms of the other guys is very, very hypocritical.

Again I'm not defending a Nazi kink I find it rather creepy but what I find even more creepy is this ranking of victims and what suffering means you can/can't write porn about it.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
The abstract idea of fascist uniforms is similar to the abstract idea of rape or paedophilia or murder... as soon as you start bringing in references to IRL fascists and IRL paedophiles, then it's a WORLD OF NO.
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[personal profile] cashay 2012-06-16 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
I don't agree.

Just an example: A fic about a priest molesting a child is a reference to IRL paedophilia but I doubt people would complain about that.

And you can't honestly try to claim that of all the non-con fics out there not at least 80% have scenarios that happened like this or similar to this in real life to someone somewhere in the world.

On another note, what are "abstract fascist uniforms"?

Also: Fascism is fascism no matter if it's something you made up or not.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Can't really speak for the rest of it, but I think by "abstract fascist uniforms" AYRT meant something having to do with the same aesthetic, like what a previous anon said about uniforms that are designed to inspire terror. Not necessarily having to do with fascism, and I don't have this kink so I can't be sure, but I'm guessing, things like sharp lines, dark colors, sleek and pointy, et cetera wouldn't be necessarily specific, but would evoke something of the same "mess with me and I will put a bullet through your head" factor.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-18 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Just an example: A fic about a priest molesting a child is a reference to IRL paedophilia but I doubt people would complain about that.

Depending on how realistically it was written, I'm pretty sure a lot of people would be disgusted and angry. A generic priest/altarboy or teacher/student fic might get relatively few complaints. A highly realistic fic that was obviously based on the actions of someone like Fr. David Sicoli or Jerry Sandusky, with a lot of details of place and characterization--basically RPF with the names filed off? I think you're underestimating how big and how angry a reaction that would get.

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[personal profile] harp 2012-06-17 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I swear I'm not trying to distract from the topic at hand or anything. I'm only posting this because I read your comments in this thread and you seem like the type of person the world needs more of- someone who will speak up and explain things and potentially change minds for the better. That's why I want to call attention to some terminology and put the reminder out that just as heterosexual male =/= rapist, pedophile =/= child molester.

I bring the point up because pedophile therapist was one of the careers I was conditioning using my degree for while an undergrad, so I read a lot of material on the psychology of the subject. I won't go into tl;dr about the current popular culture, but I did promise myself that I'd at least try to remind people as diplomatically as I could about the difference. I hope I didn't come off as naggy or cross or preachy or shaming because I really just want to remind people and getting preachy/naggy/shaming wouldn't accomplish that. And besides, I know that people forget/use words in ways that create different mental images for different people.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Not weighing in on the debate (still don't know what to think), but I've been in Nepal and Thailand and seen Nazi/Hitler stuff as youth fashion... A different kettle of fish in the West however.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I've heard it is big in Thailand.

(Anonymous) 2012-06-16 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
lol I took you seriously until that last sentence.

I've heard that rhetoric too much for it to even mean very much any more.