[ SECRET POST #1994 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1994 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 092 secrets from Secret Submission Post #285.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - empty comments ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
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Comments

OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

I think it might be time to actually discuss this matter with my friend, anyway. Just to get this out here, I do not speak with my friend about the Avengers at all, she more or less sees my conversations between friends on the internet, and just finds an excuse at a completely different time to make a comment about my enjoyment of it. It's usually a nasty one, as well. All it really does it just make me angry. When I speak with her, I avoid the topic of Avengers, I even religiously tag the Avengers on my tumblr posts so they can be saviored on her end of tumblr. I do believe I post a whole lot of this material, and I am aware of how annoying it must be to listen about my obsessions. But for the most part I try and pull myself back and think about others, I really try to. And on occasion I do go overboard, and I won't shut up. I know I do. But I try my best to think about the other party involved and I go along doing the exact opposite next time.

My words don't matter, I just wanted to get that out there, really. Thank you for yours, I appreciate it.

Re: OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, thanks for the context! That does change everything.

Definitely try to talk to your friend.

Re: OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

The thing is, are you *sure*? I'm not asking to be dick - I'm asking because people don't always realize how much a topic they really enjoy slips into their conversation. But yeah, I'd suggest bringing this up with your friend - just, perhaps, try not to sound like your accusing her of anything. That'd probably just make her defensive.

Re: OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

OP again, You aren't a dick! I am sure. She told me before she didn't care for the Avengers and then I knew it was the end of that. I stopped after she told me that. But then, when I got a little more into the fandom with my other friends, she started with the snark. I wouldn't accuse her of it, anyways. It's not really her fault that she may be using a defense mechanism because she might be feeling left out. Thank you again.

Re: OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

True, but I meant more...using accusatory language. For example, using 'You always do *this* and you make me feel like X' instead of 'When you do this, it makes me feel x.'

Re: OP Here

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds like she is feeling left out, and is worried you're just going to ride off into the sunset with your new Avengers pals - which IS going to happen if she keeps overreacting. I think the next time she says something mean, stop her and say "wow, that really hurt me. What's got you so upset/"