[ SECRET POST #1998 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1998 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Peter Gabriel]


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10. [SPOILERS for the Hunger Games]



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11. [WARNING for abuse]



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12. [WARNING for rape]

[Hetalia]


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14. [WARNING for gore, animal abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/SjfD3.jpg
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15. [WARNING for rape]

[Video Games Awesome Live]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[American Horror Story]


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18. [WARNING for dub-con, grooming, brainwashing]



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19. [WARNING FOR general discussion of triggery topics (there's bound to be triggering material in the comments)]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #285.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 (warning for rape) - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[teh_sandwich]

Men being willingly submissive are seen as emasculated and not hot and worty of general female attention.

I really wish this stereotype didn't exist because 1)I think it takes a lot of courage for men to admit they want to be dommed. (Especially wanting to be dommed by women) But no, men must be masculine and in control at all times!!!

and 2) both my boyfriend and I find it incredibly hot when I domme the shit out of him (especially since he's twice my size!) :P

[fanaberia]

Culture demands for men to be undomable, but yes we'd all be lots happier when sexual/gender stereotypes disappeared :D . More nice sex = happier society!

[teh_sandwich]

I completely agree! Men and women would be much happier if everyone didn't care who tops.

I feel like there needs to be more top!women in fic too, but idk if it's just the fandoms I'm in but those fics seem pretty rare.

[fanaberia]

*Looks at your fandoms*
Only familiar with few, but Supernatural is the worst offender in ignoring dominant women EVAR! And Season3!Ruby/Sam ... damn, need to look for fic.

[teh_sandwich]

I know! Which sucks because there could be some really hot dom!female/male ships in that fandom. Like Season 3!Ruby/Sam, Lilith/any man ever, Meg/Cas, Jo/Dean...

[fanaberia]

:D I like your choices, I'll just throw in Bela/Dean. I bet they are somewhere buried deep inside...

[teh_sandwich]

Thank you. :D I knew I forgot an awesome lady somewhere! Bela was one of those characters I loved to hate. XD

[elialshadowpine]

Yeah. My now-ex was all on this shit about how he was "passively dominant" but if you told him to do something he was all like, "Yes, ma'am!" and really seemed to get an inordinate amount of pleasure about being told what to do. But when we were talking about kink and I mentioned he came across more submissive than dominant, he freaked out. Because, OMG, MEN MUST BE DOMINANT.

(He got over that and realized he's much happier being a sub. :P)

[teh_sandwich]

I'm glad he eventually came around, but that must've been just a little bit annoying. It's ok (not to mention hot!) for men to be subs!

I feel fortunate that my boyfriend has told me many times he genuinely LOVES being a sub. He doesn't give a shit if people see him as ~manly~ or not.

[fanaberia]

Good for your ex ;). Hm, maybe there are more "passively dominant" men out there covering themselves with labels?