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Oh, me too, I think?

I don't even know if they're actually orgasms. They feel nowhere near as great as people describe them. No mind-numbing pleasure. :(

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Really? I almost pass out from it. How do you know you're having one? Is it just a mild good feeling or something else?

It feels good and there is the contracting that people describe, but it doesn't last very long and it's definitely on the mild side.

Okay TMI time but I had a similar problem masturbating laying on my back when I was younger and after experimenting I realized I was just getting out of the gate too fast and the longer I drew out the build up the more intense the climax. Also for me the combination of tensing and relaxing muscles has an impact on the intenseness. Also some friends I have only experience strong orgasms depending on positioning, only during penetration some kind of, or have to use a specific dildo or showerhead, etc. You might just need to find out what does it for you?

I think you're right. I'll have to try different things.

Thinking about it now I also used to unconsciously hold my breath during the "approach" and that threw me off. Try and breathe through it?

I did too! (mostly to avoid making noises, and now I most certainly don't make a peep)

I'll try to keep an eye on that too.

Not to spam you but I also remember reading a while back that some women prefer to hump a firm pillow or a solid surface that stimulates both the clitoris and the labia.

Don't worry about spamming me. c:

I'll try that too.

Nah, that's an orgasm. It took me awhile to realize that's what they were because my first ones were really lackluster. However, mine have gotten more powerful over time for some reason or another. I wouldn't necessarily call them mind-numbing, but I've had a few that were strong enough to dull my hearing and make my extremities tingly.

Have you tried edging for awhile? Like, bring yourself really close to orgasm, then back off for a bit and just keep yourself right on the edge there for awhile before going all the way. Or maybe try some sort of vibrator, or internal stimulation?

Or it could be that you just naturally don't have intense orgasms. But 90% of the fun is getting there anyway, right? :)

I tried that but slowing down or stopping makes it impossible to keep going. :(

I guess I'll try internal stimulation at some point. It's not that I'm not satisfied as it is, thankfully, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't disappointed after all I've heard.

Do you masturbate with porn? I'm almost incapable of getting past the first stages of arousal without constant visual stimulation (except maaaybe if I'm using a vibe), so I've always masturbated with porn, which I find keeps my arousal high even if I briefly let up on stimulation or shift to less-direct stimulation.

If nothing else, internal stimulation, if you're aroused and can find the right spot and angle, can feel amazing, even if it's really hard to actually achieve orgasm that way (in my experience). Which could be a good way to edge up to near-orgasm for awhile without peaking! Every woman's body is different, of course, so the best thing to do is experiment! :)

But I would say that overall, descriptions of orgasms in fiction are probably overblown, though.

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See these are the sort of things that I'm interested in learning about. I don't have a ton of female friends that are willing to talk about this kind of stuff, so it's interesting to me to learn new things. Everyone just assumes that everybody else is just like them when it comes to this stuff, but it isn't true.

I personally am an extremely sexual person (in spite of witholding from sex for many years now...), I'm very in tune with my body and what it takes to get me where I need to go.

Does anyone here ever have orgasms in their sleep? I wake up having one sometimes, which is nice, unless I'm sharing a hotel with someone or something :/

I've had an orgasm in my sleep, didn't wake me up though. I woke up and it was like I'd had wet dream (I do the female ejaculation thing, sometimes) and no, it wasn't urine. It was very weird.

I do, have experienced it for about ten times now.

I haven't tried any of that. I'll definitely try later. Thank you for the tips!

Instead of slowing down try lightening your touches or alternating pressure but maintain whatever speed you prefer. Or instead of directly touching the clitoris sort of sandwich it with two fingers. Also, depending on other factors sometimes I only achieve orgasm using a circular motion, others only with a back and forth motion.

Thank you! I feel silly that it never occurred to me to make variations like those.

No don't be! It took me a while and a good deal of frustration to try it too!

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