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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-26 05:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #2002 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2002 ⌋

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Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds about right. My dad said something similar when I came out to him. I'm trying to remember what my mom said, but I'm blanking.

if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
I came out to my mom in passing, and she just said that "it's just a phase; you didn't relate to girls when you were a child, so now you're curious in that sense".

I never brought it up again nor dared tell my dad after that. (My mom is more open-minded than him regarding this topic.)

Re: if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. *hugs*

Have you found someone else to come out to who hasn't shut you down?

Re: if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Not really. I suspect my best friends would not mind in the least, but I don't really feel comfortable bringing it up just yet. Maybe later down the road.

I don't feel terribly pressured, since I'm been fairly indifferent towards romance and sex, and I truly would not mind if I never had a relationship with anyone. (I think it'd be nice, but if I lived the rest of my life and never had a partner or never married, I don't think I would mind. Maybe wonder on the "what-ifs", but not feel like I wasted my life.)

I'm taking the cowardly route. :(

Maybe if I actually find someone and enter a relationship, then I would probably just announce it, damn the reactions, but while I'm still single I haven't felt the urge to. (It'd be nice to not feel like it's a secret, but... yeah.)

Also, thank you for letting me rant! This something I had never admitted anywhere. :)
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Re: if it's not too csb

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2012-06-27 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
I'm taking the cowardly route. :(

BAH That ain't a fair description of anything! Imagine all the cowardly heterosexuals whose sexuality is largely unspoken and hardly worn on their sleeve, especially if they're not in a relationship of sorts.

Re: if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. :)

Re: if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
No need to rush, take your time. I didn't come out as bisexual until after I started dating.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
This is sort of my plan. Thank you! Letting all that out and reading these responses has been very nice.
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Re: if it's not too csb

[personal profile] thewordlovely 2012-06-27 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, anon. I hope you find yourself a new friend soon who you might share all this with. People need other people.

Re: if it's not too csb

(Anonymous) 2012-06-27 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
That might happen too. Thanks!