[ SECRET POST #2002 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2002 ⌋

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Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - text comments ].
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Comments

Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

[(Anonymous)]

"I kind of suspected" and "of course it doesn't change anything" sound like the best way to go about it.

And then keep your relationship going like normal. Who knows, having shared this with you might help him open up to you in other areas too and you might find your relationship getting closer, or maybe everything will continue as normal. Who knows.

Re: my brother just came out to me, what do i do

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds about right. My dad said something similar when I came out to him. I'm trying to remember what my mom said, but I'm blanking.

if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

I came out to my mom in passing, and she just said that "it's just a phase; you didn't relate to girls when you were a child, so now you're curious in that sense".

I never brought it up again nor dared tell my dad after that. (My mom is more open-minded than him regarding this topic.)

Re: if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry. *hugs*

Have you found someone else to come out to who hasn't shut you down?

Re: if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

Not really. I suspect my best friends would not mind in the least, but I don't really feel comfortable bringing it up just yet. Maybe later down the road.

I don't feel terribly pressured, since I'm been fairly indifferent towards romance and sex, and I truly would not mind if I never had a relationship with anyone. (I think it'd be nice, but if I lived the rest of my life and never had a partner or never married, I don't think I would mind. Maybe wonder on the "what-ifs", but not feel like I wasted my life.)

I'm taking the cowardly route. :(

Maybe if I actually find someone and enter a relationship, then I would probably just announce it, damn the reactions, but while I'm still single I haven't felt the urge to. (It'd be nice to not feel like it's a secret, but... yeah.)

Also, thank you for letting me rant! This something I had never admitted anywhere. :)

Re: if it's not too csb

[cloud_riven]

I'm taking the cowardly route. :(

BAH That ain't a fair description of anything! Imagine all the cowardly heterosexuals whose sexuality is largely unspoken and hardly worn on their sleeve, especially if they're not in a relationship of sorts.

♥

Re: if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you. :)

Re: if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

No need to rush, take your time. I didn't come out as bisexual until after I started dating.

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

This is sort of my plan. Thank you! Letting all that out and reading these responses has been very nice.

Re: if it's not too csb

[thewordlovely]

Aw, anon. I hope you find yourself a new friend soon who you might share all this with. People need other people.

Re: if it's not too csb

[(Anonymous)]

That might happen too. Thanks!