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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-27 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2003 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2003 ⌋

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TB

(Anonymous) 2012-06-28 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
I for one am very appreciative of your self restraint. I know some people like the word or don't mind it, but I find it to be one of the most hurtful disgusting insults to throw out. I physically recoil and my heart speeds up and I have a little panic when people throw that word at me. So while I'm not going to play word police and say you shouldn't ever use it, I do appreciate people refraining from using that word.

Re: TB

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-28 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
I personally never really cared for the word but it didn't affect me until I actually had someone use it against me in extreme anger and it shocked me how viscerally it scared me. Ever since then I get a little nauseous hearing/seeing it used.

new anon

(Anonymous) 2012-06-28 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
That's sort of what happened to me. I've had it used against me a couple of times and always it's a group of men using it against me in a very angry tone. It freaks me out. The first time it was more shock that they'd even use the word and then mixed with the pure anger behind it...yeah, I get a little nauseous and panicked when I hear or read it.

This thread might need a trigger warning?

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-28 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
I really felt dehumanized and I just had no idea what he could do to me in that moment when he didn't even see me as a human being. The other people there were all men and they acted like it wasn't a big deal and that they weren't affected by what I saw and heard scared me so bad I haven't associated with any of them since. It's not that it references female genitalia, for me that word is meant to terrorize and humiliate and reduce a woman to her "use".
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Re: TB

[personal profile] loki 2012-06-28 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I have a super negative reaction to it too. I've been called it many times, and not in a casual "ey youse cunts come have a beer" way, but in a hateful "you are our fuck vessel" way. There's a lot of hate in the word as an insult.

I will use it in sex as a hot sexy word, and have stencilled it on many walls with love hearts around it, or "I ♥ my cunt" Suddenly walls that have had all this offensive shit over them for years are painted over when that goes on there.

In fiction I don't mind it being used, if it's obviously meant to be a vile misogynist thing to say.
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Re: TB

[personal profile] teh_sandwich 2012-06-28 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad they have self restraint also. That word is actually kinda triggering to me. :/

Re: TB

(Anonymous) 2012-06-28 10:52 am (UTC)(link)
Also, it's really unimaginative. Think up some different insults. There are more swear words/insults in the English language than "fuck", "bitch" and "cunt".
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Re: TB

[personal profile] nobara 2012-06-28 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
My new favorite is "douchecanoe." It's just fun to say!