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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-02 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2008 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2008 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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cassandraoftroy: Rory and Amy from Doctor Who, kissing (amy/rory)

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2012-07-03 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Date a guy because you like him, and because you want to see where it goes. The unfortunate reality is that, if you're a girl, people are going to judge you for your choices -- there is actually no win-option here, with some people. Women get slotted into narrow behavior stereotypes (clingy, over-committed girl vs. dirty slut) with no middle ground between, so don't waste your time trying to find a middle ground that doesn't exist. Do what's right for you, what's going to make you healthy and happy, date who you want to when you want to for the reasons you want to, and anyone who tries to force you into a stereotyped box can go hang.