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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-02 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2008 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2008 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 088 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-03 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Fandom is not the best place to go for opinions on real relationships. There is too much disregard for the reality of the situation in order to satisfy a kink which typically involves an abuse of power.

It is difficult to compare your situation to anyone else's, too, so no one can say how your relationship was viewed. Maybe people saw two consenting adults and figured that you both were mature enough to handle the age gap. Maybe people were squicked at first until they were able to adjust to the type of relation you have and gain a better understanding of it.

Try looking at the reasons as to why the age-gap and teacher-student relationships bother you. If your relationship fits those reasons, then people probably have those thoughts. If not, then there you go.