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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-02 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2008 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2008 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Same Anon

(Anonymous) 2012-07-03 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Don't give a shit what people on the Internet think and I think it's as unhealthy to go into every relationship with the believe it's gonna last forever and you'll be perfect as it is to be in love but be sure beforehand that you're not gonna last anyway.

If you'll last, you'll last if not, you won't. You can't predict the future so you shouldn't worry about it and just go for it.

But be sure to tell the guy the truth about what you (don't) feel for him, stringing someone along is not nice.

Same Anon

(Anonymous) 2012-07-03 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
"Don't give a shit what people on the Internet think and I think it's as unhealthy to go into every relationship with the believe it's gonna last forever and you'll be perfect as it is to be in love but be sure beforehand that you're not gonna last anyway."- so if they're both bad, which one should I do?

New Anon

(Anonymous) 2012-07-03 10:06 am (UTC)(link)
Go into a relationship with eyes open. Love passionately like your heart's never going to break, "dance like nobody's watching", but in the back of your mind, in the rational corner, know chances are your heart will break. So what, you've got to live. Don't get hitched or pregnant or tattooed matching prematurely if you can help it though, because of the little rational voice. But love isn't rational, so have at it.

As for people's opinions... eh, yeah, if you're really unsure of yourself, you can't just completely ignore people's feedback about yourself, until you get some self-confidence and knowledge of how others see you. But I guess filtering the opinions is the key, and learning what opinions works for/with you, and what doesn't. It's not easy.