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fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm
[ SECRET POST #2023 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋
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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 066 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Don't beat yourself up - doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. (But you do need to accept that you probably won't ever get the full story, either.)
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It might even be, though you probably don't want to believe this, that he was cheating with someone, just not you.
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(Anonymous) 2012-07-17 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
I hope you someday get closure OP, but if not just know it sounds like you were a good friend and you shouldn't feel guilty over this.
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(Anonymous) 2012-07-17 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 03:21 am (UTC)(link)Thank you for the support. Submitting this secret really has helped me a lot, and I appreciate all of the positive re-enforcement that I've received from it. The only thing that I can do is wait until they're within reasonable driving distance again and just go to the show and see what happens. I'm terrified that he'll ignore me or something, but he's never seemed like that kind of guy to do that to someone.
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I know some people thought you waited too long to text him and think he got upset with what he might have interpreted as your disinterest in him. Maybe that was the case...maybe not. Not all relationships are the same; some people talk every day, some once or so a week, some every few weeks, and yes, you can maintain a decent friendship by contacting each other every month or even every few months. Maybe you guys would've grown closer if he had responded and it became a thing, or maybe not. Maybe he wanted more from you, but if he never tried to reach out himself or explain that to you then this whole thing isn't just on you - it's on him too. These things don't always work out and you can't beat yourself up about them.
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(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)I don't think it has anything to do with you - I believe you respected his privacy very well. As the others said, it might be his partner? I do hope you'll meet him again soon and clarify things. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! <3
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