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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-19 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2025 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Pokemon Special]


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[Avengers/Thor]

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[Team Fortress 2]


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[Lee Pace]


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[Supernatural]


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[CSI: Miami]


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[Two Men in a Trench]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-19 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I assume from the previous response to someone, you're thinking I go around with a boob window all the time. Rest assured I don't. However, as I said it doesn't matter WHAT I wear, everyone will be looking at my boobs.

My point being that it shouldn't be an absurd hope that someone might not stare at my boobs. I shouldn't have to wear three shirts just to cover up my cleavage that I have zero control over, because THINK OF THE CHILDREN as well as PEOPLE ARE PERVERTED. I should be able to walk around wearing whatever the hell I want without the threat of being eye-molested, or worse.

It's sad and pathetic that I do have to hope against hope that even with a tank top, camisole, and top shirt, people won't stare at me for having female mammary glands.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-07-20 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Hahaha what?

No, I did not seriously think you had a boob window.

That said, to a certain extent, men are literally hardwired to pay attention to certain anatomical parts on a woman. those parts in particular first for feeding, then when puberty hits they are incredibly interesting all over again. This isn't some "mansplain" or whatever thing where I'm trying to justify some jackass' inappropriate behavior, which I'm sure has happened to you. But the fact of the matter is that guys are more or less designed to look at those.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-07-20 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
We're hardwired to do a lot of things we know better to do in public nowadays. I get the urge to stare and honestly I do sometimes but like for a second on the sly and I definitely don't take cleavage as justification for my behavior.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-07-20 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Well yeah, your still pretty crappy if you out and out gawk at the things.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Men are not hardwired to stare at breasts. They may be hardwired to find them attractive,sure, but this is bullshit.

Do you think men societies where women spend large portions of their time topless stare at women like this man does in this comic? I doubt it (otherwise they would never get anything done).

Therefore, behaviour like this is cultural, not biological. I don't believe the 'they can't help themselves' crap.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
+1, this is true. In several parts of Africa women walk around topless all day and nobody gives a shit. It's not in their culture to sexualize breasts.
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2012-07-20 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
You seem to be conflating "look" with "stare" (which I notice a lot of people in this thread are doing). No one expects heterosexual men to valiantly pretend boobs aren't even there, but an appreciative glance on one's way to the rest of the package is miles away from forgetting the woman attached to the boobs actually has a face. (Especially when she just saved your life).
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-07-20 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
You make a good point, I have been among the guilty here. Yeah, staring for a prolonged period is a rather different thing.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, what essentialist bullshit. Are lesbians "hardwired" to look at women's tits, despite rudeness? Or are they somehow different because they have a cunt, please mansplain?

No. Being women lesbians learn pretty fucking fast to have RESPECT, and know when to look and when not to. Men aren't taught that, generally, because of SEXISM. Which your stupid explanation is.
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[personal profile] thene 2012-07-20 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
Culture is more or less designed to enable them to think it's appropriate.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
That said, to a certain extent, men are literally hardwired to pay attention to certain anatomical parts on a woman

Incorrect. Also, you're an asshole.