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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-04 03:45 pm

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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-05 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
I don't even like sweets or crying. My period is like a Jekyll-Hyde thing.

I like being on my period though because anytime I argue with my brother over who has to do something I always get to say "Whoever isn't bleeding from their vagina should have to do that," and the he gets grossed out and does it for me. If that doesn't work then I just start describing the menstrual cycle and it's effect on my body and he flees to do my bidding.
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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-08-05 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
*snerk*
Boys are such wimps.

I have to say, though, in all seriousness, getting my girly parts removed was the best fucking thing ever. NO MORE PERIODS!! YAY!

Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-05 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'm looking forward to it myself (don't tell my mother!) just because I'm super paranoid about pregnancy. If I'm a day late I'm sure I'm a medical phenomenon pregnant with the anti-christ.
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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-08-05 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
OMG this. Even when i was on the pill, i was always super-paranoid. I put off having our daughter until i was thirty, and then got the hysterectomy right after. Was down for like...two days. Easier than having a kid, let me tell you, heh.

Why are you waiting? Money thing, or age thing?

Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-05 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
Both. Even if I wait until I'm thirty I hear it's pretty hard to get a doctor to do it when you don't already have biological children.
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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-08-05 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
I guess it depends on the doctor - some are more accommodating.

Personally, i find that kind of paternalistic bullshite infuriating. My body, my choice.

Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-05 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I know. Living in Texas and while I can understand the side-eyeing when a 21 year old wants it I still know I absolutely don't want to have kids the biological route and probably won't want them within my "fertile" years.

I don't see the point as there are so many children without homes. Try telling that to my mother though. Which is infuriating as she herself was adopted. And the fact that I apprenticed with a midwife when I was eleven and that kind of thing sticks with you may have a little to do with it as well. :D
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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-08-05 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose, though really - if someone says 'i don't want kids, take this out', then freaking do it. If they change their minds ten years later, well...bummer for them but that's the chance they took. I just can't stand the 'no no, you silly thing, you will want babbies!!' attitude, it makes me rage. Adoption would have been fine by me if i hadn't been able to get pregnant.

I had my daughter at home with a midwife. It wasn't bad, really - trying to pass a kidney stone hurt a lot fucking worse. *That* made me cry - having my daughter didn't. *Not that i wanted to do it more than once, though, heh.*

Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-08-05 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I agree the attitude is infuriating but I kinda think most twenty year olds shouldn't be allowed to do pretty much anything. And while inconvienent I guess I can wait as this is something I'm sure I want.

I assisted in over fifty births and after awhile I saw pretty much the worst of the worst including my little sister's birth which almost resulted in the death of my mother so "None for me thanks!" seems like the only possible response I could have. Combine that with the fact I feel like I've already raised my kids.
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Re: ...And I just ate an entire jar of Nutella. I'll take "Signs I've Started My Period" for 200 Ale

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-08-05 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
I got very, very lucky - no morning sickness, no issues of any kind, gained almost no weight, was only in 'hard' labor for about three hours. It just was not, physically, a big deal.

I was more twitchy about my water breaking on the couch and ruining it because i wouldn't be able to clean it up properly.

One, though, was/is plenty. Been there, done that, don't need to breastfeed ever again. My sis in law told me that having only one was 'mean' and no kid should grow up 'alone'. HA.