[ SECRET POST #2041 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2041 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Yet another sexuality related question

[(Anonymous)]

I've gone through a similar thought process before (female, ids personally as "queer", says "bi" if asked, marrying a man, have only dated a couple other people, also men), but along the lines another poster mentioned, I reasoned: could I really not legitimately id as a sexuality attracted to men before dating one? What makes it different for my attraction to women?

So, OP: did you not identify as straight until you dated a boy? (Apologies if this has already been brought up -- late where I am and I am typing slowwww...)

Also, vaguely recall an essay I read in an anthology of essays, poems, and prose on bisexuality, written by a woman in the same "never dated a woman, marrying a man, IDs as bi" boat. Finding someone with the same experience who called herself bi was a sort of strange relief, since I feel like many stories written by/about bisexuals are about people with experience with both sexes, and I felt like I wasn't doing it right, somehow... Trying to recall the name of the book, though, and having trouble; think it might have been called "Look Both Ways".