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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-13 07:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2050 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2050 ⌋

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Re: TMI Masturbation Question

(Anonymous) 2012-08-14 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Tightness is absolutely normal! Being a virgin, I had to prepare myself to use a menstrual cup, and I basically took a month of first stretching myself with one finger by pushing it in different directions, and then two fingers in different directions and scissoring before I could manage, and then I still experienced slight discomfort using my cup for the first while. Then, despite using a cup for years, when I eventually bought a vibrator I still experienced slight discomfort from stretching when I first used it!

In my experience, the best way to stretch out your vagina if you want to is just to keep going at it, enough to experience slight discomfort but not enough to hurt. Using lube or getting yourself really aroused beforehand can help. However, this is not necessarily going to get you off! Just make it easier for you to see if you can find a stimulate your g-spot.

I started masturbating when I was 19/20 myself, so don't feel bad about it! I, for one, never cared much for penetration until I bought my vibe, and I still rarely manage to orgasm from internal stimulation alone. However, everybody is different! But I recommend experimenting more with your clitoris.

I also recommend trying porn. I can only get off with visual porn generally, so you should see if anything helps you along: written porn, drawn porn, pornographic flash games, real people porn... find what works for you and go with it!