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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-29 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2066 ]


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Re: Do You Automatically Judge Adults

(Anonymous) 2012-08-29 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I may have a little bit of a knee-jerk reaction, yes, but generally I try to hold myself back from being judgmental. As as been noted above, there are a lot of reasons living with ones parents may be necessary, if not simply preferable. In some cultures, it's the norm to stay with your parents even if you are a working adult who could live independently.

I certainly judge people who mooch off of their parents and also people who use their parents as an excuse not to be independent. I know a guy whose mother has some medical issues, but it's nothing she can't handle on her own. Only this guy pretty much makes her his whole world and constantly uses helping her as an excuse for everything, including failing to get his career off the ground and generally not living his own life. The weird thing is, she doesn't ask for much and certainly isn't guilting him into this.